Tiffany, you are a bitch.
There….. I said it. lol
Originally posted on Gentle Kindness :
One thing to keep in mind about manipultors and abusers, is that they do not always tell you the truth. We want to believe they are, because we do not want to think someone is lying to us.
One thing you can do is to look at their situation more rationally, rather than emotionally.
Here are some questions that will help you to evaluate the situation. All of these will not apply to every situation. I tried to cover more than one scenario, with the list.
1. Is their situation that they are asking for help with, really as desperate as they are telling you?
2. Is there really no one else to help them?
3. Have they actually asked others for help, if they are telling you that you are the only one who can save them?
4. Is it as emotionally meaningful to them as they are saying…
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